Pastoral Struggles and Advice Zone
Ministry can be tough. So many pressures can bear down on you at once. Find advice and tips below to help you cope with and adjust your approach to challenges and struggles in ministry. You are not alone.
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Horribly Embarrassing Ministry Mess-up? Here's What to Do When It Happens to You
Sometimes it seems like some mistakes signal the end of your ministry! Fear not. Here's how your ministry gaffes can lead to growth. |
Leadership, Mistakes, Growth | ||
How Do We Train Our Kids to Stand Firm?
Our kids are not being crushed by atheism they are being seduced by secularism, materialism, and individualism. |
Standing Firm in Adversity | ||
How I Got Swept Into Children's Ministry
Whether 'called', 'led', or 'dragged'... being swept into children's ministry can be the most rewarding experience. |
Working in Kidmin | ||
How Self-Evaluations Help Predict the Future
What questions should you be asking yourself at the end of each day? |
Personal Growth | ||
How to CRUSH your Goals This Year
6 ways you can succeed in reaching your goals, any time of year! |
Goals, New Year | ||
How to Deal with Difficult Kids
Parents need you to partner with them in discipling their kids. |
Behavior | ||
How to Remove Biblical Illiteracy from your Ministry
Help children connect with the Bible on a daily basis. |
Biblical Accuracy | ||
How to Set The Right Goals For the New Year
How are you tackling your goals for the New Year? |
Goals, New Year | ||
How To Talk To Kids About Tragedy
How do you talk kids through the tragic times in their lives? |
Leadership, Tragedy, Counseling | ||
How We Squeeze The Life Out Of Our Message
How do we keep the message fun and relevant, while making sure our message is clear? |
Healthy Ministry | ||
Is it Time to "Fire" That Volunteer?
Firing someone is not an easy job. But sometimes it IS necessary. |
Volunteers, Leaders | ||
Is The Church In Crisis?
How are you meeting the challenge of church closings? |
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Jesus Isn't White
Does race or skin color matter when it comes to Jesus? |
Leadership | ||
Leading from the Middle
David wasn't always the top dog. Mark Harper shares five lessons from David's life on how to lead from the middle. |
Leadership, Influence | ||
Lessons Learned... or Learning
When you go through a rough patch, do you turn FROM God, or TO Him? |
Struggles, Relying on God | ||
Make Sure You Don't Make This Mistake When Writing Volunteer Job Descriptions
Writing volunteer responsibilities can be the hardest part about putting together a volunteer job description for Children’s Ministry. |
Job Description, Volunteers, Recruiting, Hiring | ||
Ministry Goal Fails - What Now?
What To Do When You Fail to Accomplish Your Children’s Ministry Goals |
Ministry Goals | ||
Ministry Lessons Learned from Underwear and a ToyBox
What does shopping for underwear and a toybox full of toys teach us about ministry and welcoming people? |
Ministry, Environment, Welcoming People | ||
Ministry Problems--Is It Plugged in?
Call a tech helpdesk and one of the first questions asked is “Is it plugged in?” Duh, yes. But, oh wait, let me make sure ... |
Personal Growth, Relationships | ||
My Top Failures As A Kids Pastor
We all make mistakes. But it's never too late to fix them. |
Failure | ||
No More Manic Mondays!
Whether you love Mondays or dread them, here are ways to make the first workday of the week work for you. |
Organization, Monday Manic | ||
No R.E.S.P.E.C.T. for anyone or anything. What do you do?
Should you expect respect from all kids? What about kids who have been through trauma? |
Respect, Divorce Care | ||
Out of Bounds - No Boundary Between "Church Work" and Home?
Without clear boundaries, a pastor and their family suffer “boundary ambiguity” and become completely enmeshed in their parishioner’s lives and problems. |
Boundaries | ||
Pastor as Leader
Pastor, Your Leadership Matters More Than You Think. |
Pastoral Leadership | ||
Pastoring Your Volunteers
Learn some tips to retain your volunteers for life. |
Volunteers, Relationships | ||
Pastors and the Power Problem
To avoid falling victim to the dark sides, each pastor must have the emotional maturity to recognize and confront their dark side. |
Abuse of Power | ||
Play The Ball Where The Monkey Drops It
Some things are beyond our control. You have to start with what you have. You never get to start with what you wish you had. |
Ministry Upsets | ||
PreachersNSneakers Should Concern You
Ask yourself: is there anything I am doing that is a hindrance to the gospel of Christ? |
Public Image | ||
Pressing In
Stop trying to do life without Jesus. |
Jesus is all we need | ||
Principles for Managing Difficult Behavior
Here are some key principles for managing difficult behaviors. |
Discipline | ||
Put On Your Oxygen Mask First
Take care of yourself so you can help take care of others. |
Self-Care | ||
Responding to Negative Feedback
A negative comment about you have said or done is not the end of the world, but it often feels like it. Craig Jutila encourages you to move on and make something constructive out of the situation. |
Leadership, Criticism | ||
Scheduling Your Day When There's Not Enough Time
Get tips on how to better manage your time. |
Schedules, Time Management | ||
Sharing the Gospel with Children with Disabilities
How can we share the gospel effectively with children with disabilities? |
Disabilities and the Gospel | ||
Six Ways to Motivate Your Team in Challenging Times
Here are six ideas to build an engaged and motivated team no matter the circumstances. |
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Social Distancing & The Church - WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?
How do I teach “Go To Church” when the church doors are closed? |
Being the Church | ||
Task Management is for Everyone
4 Reasons you may be having an issue with Task Management. |
Task Management | ||
The 2 Asks It Takes to Build a Great Volunteer Team
Use the power of 2 to build a great volunteer team. |
Volunteers, Team Building | ||
The 4 Dragons of Ministry
When did ministry become a job? Find out how to kill the dragons before they kill you spiritually. |
Ministry | ||
The Single Greatest Recruitment Tool for Kidmin
After years and years of ministry, I have discovered that there is no greater tool for recruiting volunteers for children's ministry. |
Leadership, Prayer, Recruitment | ||
The Toggle Switch In My Brain
What do you do when you're caught between organization and creativity? |
Organization, Creativity | ||
The Tongue
The tongue can be a powerful weapon. |
The Tongue | ||
The Undeniable Benefits Of Longevity In Ministry
What are some of the benefits to longevity in ministry? |
Ministry | ||
There Is No Such Thing As A 'Pastor's Kid'
You need to treat the 'pastor's kids' the same as every other sinner. |
Pastor's Kids | ||
Three Questions for a Healthier Children's Ministry
Here's a few questions to help you gauge the health of your Children's Ministry. |
leadership | ||
Time to Write A Resume? 10 Things NOT To Do | Resume, Job Search | ||
Tips for Student Participation in Large Group
Give yourself a break and use these tips for active participation during large group time. |
Management, Large Group | ||
Toxic Church? Take These Steps!
If you're in a toxic church environment, here are some steps you can take to improve or remove yourself from it. |
Toxicity in a Church | ||
What 2020 Reminded Me About Kidmin Leaders
"When Covid hit, I was reminded of a few things that are true about kidmin leaders." |
Leadership | ||
What Kind of Leader are You? Perfect? Excellent? Or Good Enough?
Is 'Good Enough' good enough? |
Leadership |